Sunday, August 18, 2013

Just Normal Please!



Normal: according with, constituting, or not deviating from a norm, rule, or principle--- conforming to a type, standard, or regular pattern.

 A day with the family---eating lunch, talking, kids playing--- may seem normal to most people, but to me it is extraordinary.  Since my brother’s illness last year, I am always thinking about the little things and how precious they are.  I find myself in the most ordinary situations thanking God that I am there and that all is pretty well calm.   Life is not perfect now, but it is beautiful!  Today we celebrated my mom’s birthday together, nothing big, just some lunch and great conversation, but in the middle of everything I just kept thinking how grateful I was for today and this moment of just being together.  As soon as everyone was pulling out of the driveway I began to regret not telling them how special this day was to me while they were still there.  I regret not joining hands and praying together---not asking for anything, but praising God for everything!  So now I write and hope they understand how truly special each of them are to me.  My family isn’t perfect, but they are mine and I love them.  I am a better person for knowing each one of them.  I thank God that he placed me in this family, that he chose me to be Bill & Judy’s daughter, to be Bett & KB’s granddaughter, to be Eddie & Kelley’s sister, to be Felisha & Nikki’s sister-in-law, to be Clay’s wife, to be Brett & Haley’s mom, and to be Tyler, Will, Krista, Kellar, & Justin’s aunt.  So a normal day is quite fine with me, I will take it anytime because my definition of normal is extraordinary!

Extraordinary: going beyond what is usual, regular, or customary---exceptional to a very marked extent